America is a
consumer nation. As the holiday season approaches, one need look no further
than Black Friday for an example. Years ago, the day following Thanksgiving was
the best and busiest day for holiday
shopping. Families flocked to malls, shopping centers, and local stores in
order to get the best prices. Retailers reveled in the sales surge that
accounted for the bulk of their annual revenue. Looking back to the days that
marked my childhood, I recall Black Friday being a somewhat fun adventure
replete with family and friends. It was a time that ushered in the Christmas
season and its enduring spirit. But things changed. Stores began to open
earlier and earlier, competing with one another. Instead of sitting on the sofa
and watching football with a loose belt to allow for easy digestion of the
day’s feast, consumers headed out to wait in line, sometimes all night, in
order to get the early bird discount (now called door busters) on the limited
quantity of in-demand holiday gifts. The news is full of stories of pushing,
shoving, fisticuffs, and arrests. In fact, in 2011 a woman doused fellow
customers with pepper spray in order obtain a video game. Yes, we are indeed a
consumer nation.
Although Black
Friday held the title for many years, she lost her crown due to the advent of
technology. The Internet spawned e-commerce, now a global industry. Further
advances allowed consumers to shop from the convenience of their mobile device
wherever they happened to be – at home, the office, or stuck in traffic. With
just a few touches of the screen, the perils of navigating malls and shops
could be avoided. Cyber Monday was born and took her rightful place upon the
throne. Amazon came along and sweetened the deal by offering Prime service,
which provides unlimited, free two-day shipping for an annual fee. While
Federal Express will go down in history for brining overnight shipping to the
forefront of the industry, Amazon will be remembered for introducing Prime
service and feeding American’s addiction for instant gratification, which has
only intensified. In December 2017, CNBC reported that more than four million Americans
became Prime members during the holiday season. For Amazon, business was good. Morphing
from a mere online bookstore to a mega e-commerce giant, Amazon stoked the desire
of Americans to consume in greater amounts and with increased frequency. In
2017 Amazon accounted for over fifty percent of ALL holiday shopping – not just
online, mind you, but ALL holiday shopping.
So, what’s
this go to do with Heaven? Good question. In my Sunday school class this past
week, we read from the Gospel of Mark (8:27-38). In verse 34, Jesus said, “Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves…” The
Greek word is aparneomai,
which means to “deny utterly, i.e. disown, abstain.” In other words, Jesus wasn’t
telling his disciples to simply put others first and practice humility. He was
telling them to disown themselves, which is a far greater requirement.
Disowning is a refusal to acknowledge something. In this case, if we are going
to follow Christ and be His disciple, we must not acknowledge ourselves. This
concept transcends humility. Its simplicity delineates a life that is
completely dedicated to God and is not focused on, or concerned with, worldly
things. As Matthew wrote, “Do not store up for
yourselves treasures on earth, where moths and vermin destroy, and
where thieves break in and steal. But
store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where moths and vermin do not
destroy, and where thieves do not break in and steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also”
(6:19-21).
The
American culture is one of self-centeredness. Not only do we focus on
ourselves, we’re encouraged to do so. Decades ago the term selfie did not exist. Cellphones didn’t exist either, let alone
smartphones and social media. While technology offers many advantages and
conveniences, like all good things there is the potential for abuse. Social
media can be a wonderful tool for spreading the gospel and providing live
church service feeds, but it can also be – and often is – the medium for
self-glorification. Social media is littered not only with selfies, but also
with pictures of food, people engaging in various activities, opinionated
videos, political rants, and the ubiquitous check-ins – just so everyone knows
how much we are enjoying our lives! In 2 Timothy 3:2, in regard to the last
days, Paul wrote, “People will be lovers of themselves…”
Perhaps he was referring to selfies and
society’s growing obsession with itself. Regardless of his intention, Paul’s
words describe our quickly devolving society. Ironically, for Christians in
this country, it’s the society in which we must adhere to Christ’s command to
deny ourselves. We must disown ourselves and abstain from indulging in the ways
of the world.
As Christians, we are
called to be set apart from the world. What does that look like? Is it serving
in the church, volunteering in the community, or leading a Bible study? Certainly
those things are admirable and necessary. However, as good as they are, they
lack sufficiency. Denying oneself involves much more than just service. Jesus
reveals the extent of our denial in the succeeding verses when he states, “For whoever wants to save their life will lose it, but
whoever loses their life for me and for the gospel will save it.” Denying
ourselves, the refusal to acknowledge ourselves, is a commitment to a lifestyle
that is the antithesis of that epitomized by American culture. Characterized by
a lack of consumption, frugality, and near disregard for own welfare, discipleship
is a long, hard road. As my pastor noted in a sermon about Jesus’ words in
Mark, Jesus was on his was to Jerusalem, where he would be tried, sentenced,
and crucified. At the time of his teaching, He and his disciples were in
Galilee, where life was easy and carefree. Denying oneself required little
effort and did not portend of future suffering or a difficult life. When we
accept Christ and agree to be His disciple, we commit to living a life of
non-conformity, one that is distinct and disparate.
It’s true,
there’s no Amazon Prime in Heaven. We can’t have our treasures delivered via
two-day service. They must be stored there while we live our lives as Christ’s
disciples on earth. Denying ourselves is not the refusal to indulge. Rather, it
is delayed indulgence based on things to come, which are far, far greater than
anything we can imagine. When Jesus instructed his disciples to deny
themselves, He wasn’t telling them they were not important, that their lives
had no significance or meaning. Quite the opposite, He was telling them the
things of this world had no value in His kingdom and that preoccupation and
regard for them was something they must eschew deliberately and willfully. It
wasn’t a recommendation or suggestion. No, Jesus made it blatantly clear. By denying
ourselves we accept our humanity – the frailty of this life with all of its
hardships and trials – and embrace the grace and mercy of our Lord and Savior,
who was not of this world.
Americans
spend and consume at increasing rates. Many attempt to keep up with the Jones’.
We build bigger houses, drive expensive cars, and wear name brand clothes. Status
is pursued behind a façade of modesty. Comparison is private and low-key,
whispered between friends. Glorifying oneself, boasting, and pride are part and
parcel of American culture. And here we are stuck in the middle of it, called
to deny ourselves, commanded not to acknowledge ourselves in a sinful world
preoccupied with itself. Christ’s edict presents a challenge for all
Christians, particularly those living in the United States, yet it is what we
are to do in order to be His disciple. Denial is not a one-time action; it is a
way of life and discipline we must practice daily as we make our journey to
Jerusalem and answer Christ’s calling.
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